THE UNFORGIVING SERVANT
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Peter wanted to do the right thing and He is asking if there are limits to how much of the right thing he must do. Jesus pointed out to the disciples on another occasion that their responsibility involved more than just forgiveness – it also included confrontation.
Forgiveness is not just about feelings, it is about behavior. The forgiving person must care enough about his brother to seek a resolution. There is no place for holding a grudge and never speaking to the person again.
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Jesus said, “If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.” (Luke 17:3-4 NKJV)
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Lord, I realize that sometimes I don’t even want to admit that a person has hurt or offended me. But when I don’t face the problem, there is no opportunity for forgiveness. Then later, when a similar incident arises, buried resentment rears its ugly head and makes the situation even worse. Lord, help me to quickly act when reconciliation is needed, and always be ready to forgive.
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Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.” Matthew 18:22 NKJV